Or do you find yourself constantly attracted to the girls you COULD have but cant. I.e. a friends ex. Man there is something wrong with me I think but if i liked them even a little and they become single again I want them like 200 times more! Maybe its because physically I know it could happen but I have to have self control because it would hurt my friend. anyways am i alone in this?

Yes, you're completely alone on this.

No, you're not alone

thanks shookster i was starting to worry for a minute there

I'm there with you too. I can relate.